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October 2013
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Jasmine! [userpic]
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Hi, I have posted here a few times. My SO has been out of town for business for nearly a month now. We usually text each other (he hates the phone) about a few times a week or more. Last Wednesday, he called me.

He called me and he was super sweet. He said he missed me and can't wait to come home and chit chatted and asked me if anything had changed since he was gone? And I said no....??? He said, "Can we still hang out when I get back?" and I said sure!!! He assured me he couldn't wait to come home and see what I got him for his birthday.

That was last Wednesday. I texted him and called him on Friday, no response. Now it's Tuesday and I'm petrified that he is never going to call me again and he is ditching out on me. This doesn't make any sense to me. The longest we haven't talked in about 4-5 days. Now it's going on 6!
Sometimes he mentions that he is a drifter, but he said he would always stay close to me.....I dont know.

Can I get your thoughts on this? Thank you so much.

Current Mood: sadsad
Comments

:\ Maybe he is really busy? Anyway, I'd just try to keep your mind off it until he does call you. No use worrying about it if there's nothing you can do, right?

Last summer, I called my guy (we were on a break) and he didn't call back for a month... but when he finally returned the call, he was more eager to see me than ever.

you know what? he called me tonight. he said he's been feeling shitty.

it is my opinion that if someone wants to talk to me, they will call me. i think that, aside from catastrophe, nothing is keeping him from calling you besides his own laziness/indifference. however, only you know the true nature of your relationship. if it's important to you that he calls you back when you call him (as it should be!), then tell him. if he ain't down, get a new bf.

well, he's a real big mellow weenie and i usually dont trip if i dont hear from him for a day or two...but hes been gone for nearly a month and now today he called. so i feel better. thanks for the reply...♥